How to stop worrying about what people say. Dealing with negative people

I have come to you with advice. What can we do to stop worrying about what people say about us? Become immune to verbal and energy attacks thrown at us? How to stay positive about this behavior?

I am not saying that you should start ignoring everything you are told. Especially if you hear from people who care about you and want the best for you. They often express their opinion or try to support you with good advice.

This post is more aimed at people who think they have a lot of negative and toxic people around them. People who put themselves above them, whose opinion makes them doubt themselves and all the choices they have made so far. You meet them in everyday life, on the Internet, or even among family members. Be forgiving and remember that their negative energy directed at you will come back to them with a vengeance. The Law of Karma always works, it is easy to see this if you analyze some situations in your life.

There are several reasons why people behave this way. I will try to present these reasons to you so that you understand, accept and learn to ignore and repel these negative attacks. After reading this article, it will certainly become a little easier.

1. Weakness

Basically the rule is known. Some people treat you badly because they can't handle their emotions. They have a disappointment that eats them from the inside, and they have to dump themselves on someone, taking out their negative emotions. This is mainly because these people are themselves deeply unhappy and dissatisfied. This energy is so great that they cannot contain it. One should always cleanse oneself after having experienced such hatred. Especially if the person was extremely vicious. Curses spoken with such a huge energy load, passed through teeth and full of the notorious poison, can pollute our energy field for a very long time.

Let's look at such a person as emotionally immature. Everyone will eventually learn patience and self-control. If not in this life, then in the next. Lack of control over your emotions is a great weakness and not easy to work with. Let us forgive those who are just discovering the path of this science, on which they will take their first steps at any moment. I think that at some point, instead of being angry that someone did something bad to us, you will automatically feel sorry for that person for how they feel. You will understand that this person's behavior is usually gone NIC in common with you. You just happened to be around at the wrong time, and the person in question let his emotions run wild.

Sometimes these people treat you badly also because they see in you what they lack, what they would like to have. It can be, for example, confidence, happiness, success, good looks. You may notice that this kind of primitive hatred is often experienced by celebrities.

2. Mirror principle

People are trying to see what they hate about you. These people inadvertently perceive things and behaviors in you that they want to exclude from themselves. You may have similar traits, but it may just be a non-psychotic projection. Regardless of which answer is correct, they both have the same cause, lack of self-acceptance.

3. Negativity in the family

It's a really bad experience to be constantly treated negatively by family, friends, or other people who should love you. I have experienced it and, as far as I know, many other people too. This is not as rare as it might seem. I know that it is not easy, especially when you are looking for support and understanding among such people. When you want to talk, you confess your problems, and in return you are judged and criticized.

Always listen constructive criticism, it allows you to develop and grow. Whether you are working on something important, making important decisions, or thinking about far-reaching plans, constructive criticism is very important, as it is followed by a series of valuable tips and directions. If someone directly criticizes you just to clip your wings and raze you to the ground, that's a different matter. There is only one way to prevent exposure to you. You have to learn how to block these attacks, and there are fewer lessons to be learned from that. We learn to be confident and self-confident, honest and complete, it is impossible to move. You must be confident in your choice and that you can do more than that. ci people think you can do.

Perhaps you do not believe in yourself, you have many doubts, and sometimes you behave badly towards yourself. In this case, you can start to believe all the negative schemes and lies that these people feed you. You have to really learn to block it out and build your confidence, brick by brick. Then the same people will come again with their attacks, and this time you will not budge, but only smile with pity. We are all just or equally human, we all have more or less the same opportunities. If you notice that those on the other side of the barricade are also just people, their behavior will no longer have such a strong influence on you. What they say does not define you or your life at all. If you are criticized unreasonably, counter the attack with positive energy, saying, for example: "Yes, I know that I can do more and I can do more, thanks for your opinion, but I know who I am and what I should." Do it now."

Some people will always bring up pointless and nonsensical things that can make you feel worse. It is important to be aware of yourself, to know your shortcomings, to know your strengths, to be unable to move. If you are aware of yourself, what you can, what you cannot, your pros and cons, no one will be able to influence you with their critical attitude.

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